Thread: Help, Is there any change of going back to normal?

We are both very young, my partner and I but we have had a very strong relationship for 4 months, we have been intimate with eachother and have done things we thought we never thought we would at this age as my girlfriend( who is two years younger than me) has such a high level of trust for me.
Things were going pretty much perfect apart from a few petty arguments that were easily solved. I understand I have become a little too attatched, over protective and get very jealous, but I am willing to change my ways as I know that my girl is young and just wants some fun, but at the same time is trustworthy, and would never cheat on me.

Its christmas time, and thats a time where people think about things alot, and because of family, young couples dont get to see eachother alot, and thats what happened with us, and on boxing day, I found out that my girlfriend had become confused and hadent felt the same way she had all this time since christmas eve. I freaked out but kept calm and tried to sort things out. I really cannot afford to lose her as she is so amazing and Ive never seen anybody as beautiful as her, known anyone as caring as her, and I know I never will.

The thing is she really doesnt know why she feels like this, she gave me her word that it isnt my fault and she is annoyed at her self for thinking like this. I told her its most likely a phase she is going through, especially over christmas where we havent been able to see eachother much, which cant have done us any good. She says she really wants things to go back to how they were, and that her feelings come back, so I am trying so hard to help her get these feelings back and reignite the initial spark. Im her first real boyfriend and Im worried she doesnt understand the emotions she has and is going to make a very regretable decision. Im trying to help her through it as Ive been through it al before and she wants me to help, and really hopes things return to how they formerly were.
We are trying countless things, like going back to the routine we had before christmas, taking her new places and going back to the places we first met and fell in love. In fact, Im taking her to town today, we never really went out so its something new and I pray to god that it works and her feelings come back a little, I know it will take time but Im willing to wait as long as I need, and so is she, as we know we have something very special, and cannot afford to lose eachother.

Yesterday she came over and we watched a movie, and to begin with she wouldnt let me cuddle her, kiss her or even hold her hand, but gradually she opened up and soon rolled over and layed up against me. We then played together and messed about and it felt like nothing had ever gone wrong. After she left I asked her did she enjoy herself, and I got a most hurtful answer of 'I did as friends'. The thing is we didnt act as friends at all, we acted how we did before this problem came about, just without the kissing and cuddling. I am convinced she said that because she is confused, as later that night, we began to send long texts saying things are going to work out, as we both really want it to and are trying very hard, and then she spoke about a song, and then texted 'This song will definately be played at our wedding, no doubt about it'.
Im thinking that I may be giving myself false hope, but I just have to try everything to see if feelings return, as she is so, so special and we'd be stupid to throw away what we have without trying every possible thing.

I just need some advice on what to try next, If going out to town does or doesnt have any positive effect on things (Ill report back on this after today).
I know this isnt about actualyl getting my ex back, but its pretty much on the verge of breaking up, and we both just want things to go back to normal, and get her feeling back.

Any help would be appreciated

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