Thread: New here

Hi I'm new. My boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me about 4 months ago. We had been having problems, nothing major just hit a plateau of boredom with each other. He has been seeing other people. But I want him back...no amount of begging or pleading has worked so I found this place. I really want him back he's the love of my life.

Hey I'm new here too. My gf of over 4 months just broke up with me a week ago. We would talk every single day and we were perfectly fine.. At least I thought we were. She first told me it was because she needed to focus on other stuff, and then the other day she told me it was because she realized she wasn't in love with me anymore. Honestly, I'm so confused! The way she looks at me is still the same as she did before, so i dont know..

I totally understand. My ex says we are better as friends. Still invites me to do stuff. etc. Says he can't rule out us being together in the future. Well I hate to tell him but in the future I may have given up.

While I'm desperate to have him back, I'm also not stupid enough to think that I could just get over him doing what he wanted until he is ready to come back to me....I think I'm just confused

Maybe he is too? That's sort of how it sounds. What I would do, is I would stay friends and see what happens, but I wouldn't put all of my focus on him. Remember, you have a life too! Keep doing all the things you love, and just live life and whatever happens, happens. Even though it may be hard, or absolutely wonderful!
That's what I'm doing with my ex, sort of. I think she still has feelings for me, but I'm not sure. Like I said, she still looks at me the same and she texts me a lot and now she calls me at night again. I'm not sure what it means, so I'm just going to wait it out I guess and see what happens.

Hi, I'm new to this site, and new to any type of forum for that matter. My divorce was just recently finalized, and obviously since I'm here, I'm not too happy about that. I was married for 7 yrs, have 3 kids, and made my share of mistakes. Long story short my ex cheated, but I'm willing to forgive and forget. I think I did everything wrong that you could when we separated, but I want her back. Not sure what I expect to get out of this forum, but if anyone has some advice for me, I'm willing to listen.